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Ways to help when a loved one loses a pet and resources

Posted by Collaborative Counseling
Ways to help when a loved one loses a pet and resources

Losing a pet is a difficult experience for anyone to go through. Pets are beloved members of our families, and their loss can be devastating. If you know someone who has recently lost a pet, there are a number of things you can do to help them through this difficult time.

Here are some ways to help when a loved one loses a pet:

  • Be there for them. Let them know that you are there for them and that you care. Listen to them when they need to talk, and offer your support and comfort.
  • Help with practical tasks. Offer to help with practical tasks such as walking their other pets, cooking meals, or running errands. This can take some of the burden off of them during this difficult time.
  • Share your memories. Talk to them about the pet that they lost. Share your own memories of the pet, and let them know how much they meant to you. This can help them to feel better and to know that their pet was loved by many.
  • Suggest grief support resources. There are a number of grief support resources available for people who have lost a pet. You can suggest that they talk to their veterinarian, a pet loss counselor, or join a pet loss support group.

Here are some additional tips for helping someone who has lost a pet:

  • Don’t try to minimize their grief. It is important to let them grieve in their own way and in their own time. Don’t say things like “it was just a pet” or “you’ll get over it.”
  • Don’t rush them to get another pet. It is important to let them decide when they are ready to get another pet, if at all.
  • Respect their wishes. If they don’t want to talk about their pet, don’t force them. If they want to talk about their pet all the time, be there to listen.

Resources for coping with the loss of a pet:

  • The Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement (APLB): The APLB is a non-profit organization that provides support and resources for people who have lost a pet. They offer a variety of resources, including a website, a hotline, and support groups. https://www.aplb.org/
  • Pet Partners: Pet Partners is a non-profit organization that provides animal-assisted therapy services. They offer a variety of resources for people who have lost a pet, including grief support groups and online support resources. https://petpartners.org/
  • Lap of Love: Lap of Love is a non-profit organization that provides in-home euthanasia services. They also offer a variety of resources for people who are coping with the loss of a pet, including grief support groups and online support resources. https://www.lapoflove.com/
  • Rainbow Bridge: Rainbow Bridge is a poem about the afterlife for pets. It is a popular source of comfort for people who have lost a pet.  https://www.rainbowsbridge.com/

If you know someone who has lost a pet, please offer them your support and comfort. It is a difficult time for them, and they need to know that they are not alone.