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What your emotions are trying to tell you?

Posted by Collaborative Counseling
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Have you ever wondered what your emotions are trying to tell you? Emotions are the intricate tapestry that weaves together our experiences, guiding our actions, and shaping our understanding of the world. They are the silent orchestra that plays within us, influencing our thoughts, behaviors, and relationships. Positive emotions, such as joy, love, and gratitude, uplift our spirits, foster resilience, and enhance our overall well-being. These emotions fuel our creativity, strengthen our connections with others, and motivate us to pursue our passions.   

On the other hand, negative emotions, like sadness, anger, and fear, serve as vital signals, alerting us to potential threats and guiding us towards self-preservation. They can also motivate us to seek support, address challenges, and learn from our mistakes. However, when these emotions become overwhelming or prolonged, they can negatively impact our mental and physical health.   

By understanding the complex interplay of emotions, we can develop greater self-awareness and emotional intelligence. This enables us to navigate life’s challenges with greater resilience, empathy, and compassion. We can learn to harness the power of positive emotions to inspire and uplift ourselves and others, while also managing negative emotions in a healthy and constructive manner. By embracing the full spectrum of human emotion, we can cultivate a richer, more fulfilling life.

To learn more about what your emotions are trying to tell you, consider looking into therapy and counseling to help you explore your own emotional inner world. You can also learn more about this topic by checking out these other articles:

The Role of Positive Emotions in Positive Psychology

What are Negative Emotions and How to Control Them?

Lingering feelings over daily stresses may impact long-term health

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How to Pick a Therapist

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How to Pick a Therapist

Choosing a therapist is a significant step in your mental health journey. Learning how to pick a therapist can be tricky! Here are some tips to help you find the right fit:   

1. Define Your Needs:

Before starting your search, consider what you hope to gain from therapy. Are you dealing with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or trauma? Understanding your specific needs will help you narrow down your options and find a therapist who specializes in the areas that are most relevant to you.   

2. Seek Recommendations:

Talk to friends, family, or your primary care physician for referrals. They may have personal experiences or know someone who has found a good therapist. Word-of-mouth recommendations can be a valuable resource, as they often come from people who have had positive experiences with a particular therapist.  

3. Utilize Online Resources:

Websites like Psychology Today and GoodTherapy allow you to search for therapists based on location, specialty, and insurance acceptance. You can read therapist profiles, see their areas of expertise, and sometimes even find client reviews. These online resources can be a great starting point for your search, as they provide a convenient way to compare different therapists and find one who meets your specific needs.   

4. Consider Your Preferences:

Think about the therapist’s gender, age, and experience level. Some people prefer a therapist with a similar background, while others value a therapist with a different perspective. You may also want to consider the therapist’s approach to therapy, such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), psychodynamic therapy, or humanistic therapy. Different therapeutic approaches may be more effective for different individuals, so it’s important to find a therapist whose approach aligns with your preferences and needs.   

5. Schedule Initial Consultations:

Most therapists offer free or low-cost initial consultations. This is an opportunity to meet the therapist, discuss your concerns, and ask questions. Pay attention to how you feel during the consultation. Do you feel comfortable and understood? Does the therapist seem knowledgeable and empathetic? The initial consultation is a great opportunity to assess the therapist’s personality, communication style, and overall fit with your needs.   

6. Trust Your Gut:

Ultimately, the best way to choose a therapist is to trust your instincts. If you feel a connection with the therapist and believe they can help you, it’s likely a good match. However, it’s important to remember that it may take time to build rapport with a therapist. Don’t be afraid to try different therapists until you find the one who is the best fit for you.

Remember, finding the right therapist takes time and effort. Don’t be afraid to try different therapists until you find the one who is the best fit for you. We hope this helps you in how to pick a therapist that is right for you!

How to Pick a Therapist
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ADHD: Understanding the Diagnosis and Dispelling Myths

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ADHD: Understanding the Diagnosis and Dispelling Myths

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder that affects how a person pays attention, controls impulsive behaviors, and regulates activity levels. While it’s often diagnosed in childhood, ADHD can persist into adulthood.   

Understanding ADHD Diagnosis

Diagnosing ADHD can be a complex process that typically involves a comprehensive evaluation by a qualified mental health professional. Here’s a general overview:

  • Symptoms: The individual must exhibit a consistent pattern of inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity.
  • Onset: Symptoms usually begin in childhood but may not be fully recognized until adulthood.
  • Impact: The symptoms must significantly interfere with daily life, work, or relationships.
  • Rule out other conditions: The professional will consider other potential causes for the symptoms, such as sleep disorders, anxiety, or learning disabilities.

It’s crucial to remember that self-diagnosis is not recommended. While online resources can provide information, they cannot replace a professional evaluation.

Common Myths About ADHD

There are many misconceptions about ADHD. Let’s debunk some common myths:

  • ADHD is caused by bad parenting: This is false. ADHD is a neurobiological condition.
  • ADHD is just a phase that kids grow out of: While some symptoms may lessen, ADHD is a lifelong condition.
  • ADHD is only a childhood disorder: While often diagnosed in childhood, it can persist into adulthood.
  • ADHD medication is addictive: When used as prescribed, ADHD medications are not addictive.
  • Sugar causes ADHD: There is no scientific evidence to support this claim.

Where to Find More Information

If you suspect you or someone you know might have ADHD, it’s essential to consult with a qualified healthcare professional. Here are some resources that can provide additional information:

  • ADDitude Magazine: Offers articles, blogs, and resources for individuals with ADHD and their families.
  • CHADD (Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder): Provides information, support, and advocacy for individuals with ADHD.
  • The Mini ADHD Coach: Offers practical advice and information about ADHD.

Remember: Seeking professional help is the first step towards understanding and managing ADHD. Call us today for help at 763-210-9966! You can also complete an online appointment request.

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How to Live Your Best Life: Tips for Quarantine

Posted by Collaborative Counseling

We know that this is a stressful and overwhelming time in everyone’s life and we believe that setting aside some time for yourself helps you so you can help others around you. We have compiled a list of resources and tips for quarantine to help you make the most of this time quarantined at home.

Here are 8 ways you can make a small change in your daily life to live your best quarantined life:

1. Get up and move!

Many athletic and fitness clubs are offering free resources, so be sure to look around for tools to get moving and boost your immunity. For example, LifeTime Fitness is offering free on-demand exercise videos: https://my.lifetime.life/lp/video-workouts/strength.html. You can always go on a walk around your neighborhood to get some fresh air!

2. Internet

If you need access to internet, Comcast is offering 2 months of free internet to low-income households. The deadline to apply is April 30. https://internetessentials.com/covid19

3. Breathe

Diaphragmatic breathing, also known as belly breathing, helps give you a basis for meditation and also has many health benefits, such as lowering blood pressure and heart rate. Take some time today to consciously breathe and re-center yourself.

4. Meditation and mindfulness

In addition to deep breathing, there are several resources that can help you take a step back and relax. Calm.com, Headspace.com and VirusAnxiety.com provide tips to reduce anxiety and bring awareness to your breath.

5. Set screen time limits

It is easy to lose track of time when you are home all day. Most phones offer settings that allow you to set a limit of time for social media and overall screen time. Setting these boundaries can help you stay productive throughout your day.

6. Healthy eating

Food choices can make a huge difference in your life. Do your research, plan your meals, and make sure you are getting enough vegetables and fruits. Here are some ideas for immune boosting foods: https://www.pcrm.org/news/blog/foods-boost-immune-system

7. Learn something new

Take a break from your home office and tour hundreds of museums—virtually! Google is offering tours of many museums, and you can find more information here: https://artsandculture.google.com/partner?hl=en

8. Working from home tips

There are many tips and tricks to make working from home a great experience for you, and NPR outlines some of them here: https://www.npr.org/2020/03/15/815549926/8-tips-to-make-working-from-home-work-for-you

In addition to these at-home tips and tricks, Telehealth or online therapy is a beneficial tool that is accessible from your computer or smart device.

Our providers at Collaborative Counseling are set up to provide Telehealth services that can help you navigate this unprecedented time. Accessing therapy from the comfort and privacy of your own home or space is a great way to stay connected and our providers would be happy to help you. Make sure to check back for more tips for quarantine life!

Call our office today to get scheduled at 763-210-9966!

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