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How to Create a Self Care Plan

Posted by Collaborative Counseling
How to Create a Self Care Plan

Self-care isn’t a luxury; it’s a necessity. It’s about taking the time to nurture your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. A self-care plan can help you prioritize your needs and create a routine that supports your overall health. Here’s a step-by-step guide to crafting your own personalized self-care plan:

1. Identify Your Needs: Start by reflecting on your current lifestyle. What areas of your life feel neglected? Are you physically tired, mentally drained, or emotionally overwhelmed? Pinpoint the specific areas where you need more attention, whether it’s physical health, mental health, or emotional well-being.

2. Set Realistic Goals: Once you’ve identified your needs, set realistic goals for self-care. Don’t overwhelm yourself with too many commitments. Start with small, achievable goals and gradually increase them as you build momentum. For example, if you’re aiming to improve your physical health, start with a 30-minute walk each day.

3. Create a Self-Care Routine: Develop a daily or weekly routine that incorporates self-care activities. This might include:

  • Physical Self-Care: Exercise regularly, eat nutritious foods, get enough sleep, and practice relaxation techniques like yoga or meditation.
  • Mental Self-Care: Engage in activities that stimulate your mind, such as reading, learning a new skill, or playing a board game.
  • Emotional Self-Care: Spend time with loved ones, practice gratitude journaling, or seek therapy if needed.

4. Prioritize Self-Care: Treat self-care as a non-negotiable part of your day. Schedule time for it, just as you would any other important appointment.

5. Be Flexible: Life can be unpredictable, so be flexible with your self-care plan. Don’t get discouraged if you miss a day or two. Simply pick up where you left off and continue to prioritize your well-being.

Remember, self-care is a journey, not a destination. By creating a personalized self-care plan, you can invest in your overall health and happiness.

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ADHD: Understanding the Diagnosis and Dispelling Myths

Posted by Collaborative Counseling
ADHD: Understanding the Diagnosis and Dispelling Myths

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder that affects how a person pays attention, controls impulsive behaviors, and regulates activity levels. While it’s often diagnosed in childhood, ADHD can persist into adulthood.   

Understanding ADHD Diagnosis

Diagnosing ADHD can be a complex process that typically involves a comprehensive evaluation by a qualified mental health professional. Here’s a general overview:

  • Symptoms: The individual must exhibit a consistent pattern of inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity.
  • Onset: Symptoms usually begin in childhood but may not be fully recognized until adulthood.
  • Impact: The symptoms must significantly interfere with daily life, work, or relationships.
  • Rule out other conditions: The professional will consider other potential causes for the symptoms, such as sleep disorders, anxiety, or learning disabilities.

It’s crucial to remember that self-diagnosis is not recommended. While online resources can provide information, they cannot replace a professional evaluation.

Common Myths About ADHD

There are many misconceptions about ADHD. Let’s debunk some common myths:

  • ADHD is caused by bad parenting: This is false. ADHD is a neurobiological condition.
  • ADHD is just a phase that kids grow out of: While some symptoms may lessen, ADHD is a lifelong condition.
  • ADHD is only a childhood disorder: While often diagnosed in childhood, it can persist into adulthood.
  • ADHD medication is addictive: When used as prescribed, ADHD medications are not addictive.
  • Sugar causes ADHD: There is no scientific evidence to support this claim.

Where to Find More Information

If you suspect you or someone you know might have ADHD, it’s essential to consult with a qualified healthcare professional. Here are some resources that can provide additional information:

  • ADDitude Magazine: Offers articles, blogs, and resources for individuals with ADHD and their families.
  • CHADD (Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder): Provides information, support, and advocacy for individuals with ADHD.
  • The Mini ADHD Coach: Offers practical advice and information about ADHD.

Remember: Seeking professional help is the first step towards understanding and managing ADHD. Call us today for help at 763-210-9966! You can also complete an online appointment request.

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What is EMDR therapy

We live in a day and age where technology can be consuming, but during this time of “social distancing” there are many ways that we can use technology to stay connected from a distance.

You can use apps such as Google Hangouts, FaceTime, Facebook Messenger, Skype, Zoom, and Houseparty to connect with family and friends!

1. Share with friends

Reach out to friends and family and keep them updated on how you are doing with all of your time spent at home. Share what books you are reading, shows you are watching, or small things you have accomplished throughout the day. 

2. Snail mail

Go old school, find a pen pal and write them a letter. Document what you are experiencing in this time of quarantine, then you will have these letters to look back on in years to come.

3. Virtual game night

Looking for something to do with friends while all staying in your own homes? Virtual game night! You can play charades, Heads Up, Pictionary, Drawful and many other games with a group of friends or family all through a video chat platform.

4. Cook-off

Share your favorite recipe with friends, and make each other’s favorite dishes. Video chat your meal with each other and share how your meal turned out!

Make it a little more exciting by leading your friends in a “follow-along” recipe night, and teach them how to make your favorite dish while they follow along in their own kitchen.

5. Create a virtual event

Make a Facebook event and invite some friends to join you for a virtual party. Create a virtual spa night, or “host” video game tournaments with friends. Plan to all watch the same movie or documentary together and discuss it after!

We all know that actually engaging with others face-to-face is the best type of interaction, but talking through these technological platforms allow us to stay connected in any situation.

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How to Live Your Best Life: Tips for Quarantine

Posted by Collaborative Counseling

We know that this is a stressful and overwhelming time in everyone’s life and we believe that setting aside some time for yourself helps you so you can help others around you. We have compiled a list of resources and tips for quarantine to help you make the most of this time quarantined at home.

Here are 8 ways you can make a small change in your daily life to live your best quarantined life:

1. Get up and move!

Many athletic and fitness clubs are offering free resources, so be sure to look around for tools to get moving and boost your immunity. For example, LifeTime Fitness is offering free on-demand exercise videos: https://my.lifetime.life/lp/video-workouts/strength.html. You can always go on a walk around your neighborhood to get some fresh air!

2. Internet

If you need access to internet, Comcast is offering 2 months of free internet to low-income households. The deadline to apply is April 30. https://internetessentials.com/covid19

3. Breathe

Diaphragmatic breathing, also known as belly breathing, helps give you a basis for meditation and also has many health benefits, such as lowering blood pressure and heart rate. Take some time today to consciously breathe and re-center yourself.

4. Meditation and mindfulness

In addition to deep breathing, there are several resources that can help you take a step back and relax. Calm.com, Headspace.com and VirusAnxiety.com provide tips to reduce anxiety and bring awareness to your breath.

5. Set screen time limits

It is easy to lose track of time when you are home all day. Most phones offer settings that allow you to set a limit of time for social media and overall screen time. Setting these boundaries can help you stay productive throughout your day.

6. Healthy eating

Food choices can make a huge difference in your life. Do your research, plan your meals, and make sure you are getting enough vegetables and fruits. Here are some ideas for immune boosting foods: https://www.pcrm.org/news/blog/foods-boost-immune-system

7. Learn something new

Take a break from your home office and tour hundreds of museums—virtually! Google is offering tours of many museums, and you can find more information here: https://artsandculture.google.com/partner?hl=en

8. Working from home tips

There are many tips and tricks to make working from home a great experience for you, and NPR outlines some of them here: https://www.npr.org/2020/03/15/815549926/8-tips-to-make-working-from-home-work-for-you

In addition to these at-home tips and tricks, Telehealth or online therapy is a beneficial tool that is accessible from your computer or smart device.

Our providers at Collaborative Counseling are set up to provide Telehealth services that can help you navigate this unprecedented time. Accessing therapy from the comfort and privacy of your own home or space is a great way to stay connected and our providers would be happy to help you. Make sure to check back for more tips for quarantine life!

Call our office today to get scheduled at 763-210-9966!

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